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Father's Day



The birth story is still on its way, (I haven't put down Ledger more then what I've needed to...sorry) but once I realized there was a good chance of delivering early, I had one goal in mind... to have a baby before Father's Day! Just the thought of Pat not having to experience empty arms this Sunday gave me the motivation I needed to run stairs all day long to help speed up the labor process. :)

We have been on cloud nine for the past few days and feel overwhelmingly blessed. It's been an emotional week, but this little guy has brought a great amount of sunshine back into our lives. He has done more for us then we ever thought possible. The light and happiness that I wrote about below in the piano post have returned to Pat's eyes and the sound of a crying baby in our home means more than we can explain.

Though we have been blessed, we'll forever look at holidays differently. We're still praying and thinking of all the parents who are spending this day with empty arms.




So Pat, Happy Father's Day. Ledger is one lucky boy to have you as his dad, and there is a little girl in Heaven lucky enough to claim you as her dad for all eternity. We love you and appreciate all that you do for us. I hope if all you do tomorrow is sit and hold your little boy who looks identical to you that you enjoy it. Love ya.


Patrick Jr :)
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  1. TiffanyJune 18, 2011 at 8:31 AM

    He is seriously the MOST BEAUTIFUL baby!!! You guys did GREAT!!!! Happy Father's Day Pat...you deserve a good one!! :) Loves to your sweet and GORGEOUS family!

    Tiff Rich
    Jack's Mom

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  2. TabbiJune 18, 2011 at 8:41 AM

    He's ADORABLE and that is so good to hear! I am just over the moon happy for you two! Happy fathers day Pat and a belated mothers day to you Ashley!

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  3. Cassidee GarnerJune 18, 2011 at 9:09 AM

    He is so cute! Happy Fathers Day Pat!

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  4. UnknownJune 18, 2011 at 9:16 AM

    Happy Fathers Day Pat.. We miss you guys. But we are all SOOOOOOOO happy for you all. LOVE YA

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  5. Chase & MeganJune 18, 2011 at 9:17 AM

    for the past 5 minutes I have been staring at the picture of Ledger.. he is so cute!! You guys are amazing parents.. and Im glad that you have felt Joy again.

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  6. JoeyleeJune 18, 2011 at 9:29 AM

    he's adorable...CONGRATS! glad he made his apperiance before Father's Day. My daughter was born in 2009 and made her apperance 3 days after Mother's Day! So I had to wait a whole year

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  7. Emily MeyerhofferJune 18, 2011 at 9:29 AM

    Oh my goodness he is perfect! Congratulations you two, and happy Fathers Day!

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  8. ashley mikellJune 18, 2011 at 9:45 AM

    I am so happy for you! He is a beautiful baby! Congrats!

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  9. AnonymousJune 18, 2011 at 9:52 AM

    Happy Father's Day, Patrick!
    Ashley, I'm sure Preslee had the same goal in mind...her daddy not to have empty arms on Daddy's day!He is beautiful...enjoy that little guy. I'm sure he was sent with lots of kisses from your little girl in heaven.

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  10. AlishaJune 18, 2011 at 9:53 AM

    This post makes me smile and cry...that was so sweet. :)
    I can't wait to get up there and see you guys and hold little Pat. Happy Father's Day!

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  11. Our FamilyJune 18, 2011 at 10:59 AM

    he is absolutely precious and so adorable! happy fathers day pat...I'm sure it will be priceless! we think of little preslee too! there couldn't be a better gift from heaven for fathers day! glad he's safe and healthy! katie

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  12. Kelsi FullmerJune 18, 2011 at 10:59 AM

    What a sweet post. So happy for you both. Maybe our little boys can be friends someday!

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  13. The ThornleysJune 18, 2011 at 11:03 AM

    He is such a doll:) I love reading your blog, and you're always in my thoughts. Congrats on your new sweet one!

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  14. LesleyJune 18, 2011 at 11:33 AM

    That was very tender... congratulations to you all. You deserve the very best!

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  15. ewinwardJune 18, 2011 at 11:55 AM

    this was one of the sweetiest post i have seen you write in along time, ashley you are amazing you have always put other people first through your whole trail with loosing your little girl and now you didnt want to see pat be empty handed was the most thoughtful thing i could think anyone could do for someone... thank you for letting all of us strangers be apart of your life and pats and now baby ledger.. i hope pats father day is a great day and im glad your sunshine has come back in your lifes now....you deserve so much happieness in your life and im glad you have got it....

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  16. The SullengersJune 18, 2011 at 12:08 PM

    I can't get over how much he looks like Patrick. I'm sure he has or will gain your features soon! What a sweet baby boy! I can't believe he's in a jacket! It's so hot here!

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  17. GlendaJune 18, 2011 at 12:13 PM

    Happy Father's Day! Ledger is beautiful! Enjoy your day with your lil man!

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  18. AlyJune 18, 2011 at 1:11 PM

    I have only been following your blog for a few months. But I am so so so happy for you. Your post brought tears to my eyes. Congratulations you your beautiful son.

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  19. WendyJune 18, 2011 at 2:39 PM

    Congrats he is a beautiful baby!

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  20. lindseyJune 18, 2011 at 2:41 PM

    soo sweet! glad he made his debut early too! :)

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  21. TifaniJune 18, 2011 at 2:53 PM

    He is just adorable you guys!!! A sweet sweet addition for sure!!!! luv ya
    Tif

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  22. LoraJune 18, 2011 at 6:19 PM

    He DOES look just like Pat!

    Happy Father's Day!

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  23. DeAnnJune 18, 2011 at 6:40 PM

    He's perfect. Congratulations! I've been following your story and I'm just so happy for you and your family.

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  24. SuSuJune 18, 2011 at 6:59 PM

    What a blessing. So happy to hear the joy in your post. You both deserve all things good. Best wishes and Happy Father's Day.

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  25. TracieJune 18, 2011 at 7:00 PM

    Hold him all you can! What a delight. Happy Father's Day to you all!

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  26. AbbyJune 18, 2011 at 8:06 PM

    Sooo happy for you! Tears in my eyes with joy for you!!!
    I'm a friend of Ciclily's and I have been following your blog for the last year. Congratulations!

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  27. Go For It Creations and DesignsJune 18, 2011 at 8:56 PM

    I don't know either you or Patrick, but have been following your blog. When I first saw Ledger's picture, I said that he looked just like Preslee. He is a beautiful baby!
    Congratulations!

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  28. AnonymousJune 18, 2011 at 8:59 PM

    So happy for you both!! Congrats-- he is precious!!

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  29. HeatherJune 18, 2011 at 10:51 PM

    CONGRATULATIONS!! He is gorgeous! I have been reading ur blog and telling my hubby all about it so tonight I showed him the picture of u guys and then Ledger and said tell me what u think (without telling him who I think he looks like) he said he looks like his mom he has her eyes! I know I enjoy knowing that my son at least as something that looks like me! I would not want to put him down either...enjoy every minute of it and never feel guilty about what is not getting done or time for others besides ur little family!!!

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  30. Chad and StarrJune 18, 2011 at 11:07 PM

    He is Perfect! Congratulations! & Happy Fathers Day Pat!

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  31. AnonymousJune 18, 2011 at 11:19 PM

    I like the third picture ( the one on the bottom).

    In the picture of Ledger wearing the gray jacket, he looks like a gangster baby-hahahahahaha.

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  32. Sue ZJune 19, 2011 at 6:22 AM

    Blessings to you and your family!

    My mom gave birth to my sister 11 months after my brother died at 5 months of age.

    She said that in no way could one baby replace another, but it helped her to heal SO much from her grief and helped her to reenter life. She went from feeling as though she was in a dream state to being able to function as a parent again.

    It's been 59 years since she lost her little boy and she still thinks of him often, sometimes with tears, and looks forward to the time when she can be with him again ... but she's lived a long happy life, becoming mom to 4 other children.

    You've gone through the deepest grief that a parent can experience and now you're going through the greatest joy ... embrace it and Enjoy!!

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  33. AnonymousJune 19, 2011 at 8:25 AM

    Happy Fathers Day Pat. Congratulations on your new little boy I know he is such a blessing to you. My hubby said that you could have waited until the 18th to have Ledger because that is his birthday :) but the 14th is my sweet nieces birthday and you always tell him that they put all the flags up just for him ;) Love you guys Emily

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  34. JonesJune 19, 2011 at 11:30 AM

    He is beyond beautiful. I'm so happy for you both. Happy Father's Day Patrick. I hope you have a wonderful day.

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  35. MorganJune 19, 2011 at 2:22 PM

    oh congratulations! im happy for you! i'm happy for your happiness. happy fathers day pat!

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  36. Southern Queen of the CraziesJune 19, 2011 at 3:13 PM

    Congratulations on the birth of your son. I wish you many years together. :)

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  37. Emily Heizer PhotographyJune 19, 2011 at 4:13 PM

    I cried!

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  38. JennaJune 19, 2011 at 4:25 PM

    Happy Father's Day Pat! What a good little boy to cooperate to get himself here for Pat's special day. :) I can't get over how adorable he is! And the pictures you have from the hospital captured such sweet moments. I love them. Hope you are feeling ok Ashley.

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  39. NyreeJune 19, 2011 at 7:01 PM

    What a gorgeous baby! Congratulations! I am bursting with happiness for you two! So good to hear that he made his appearance just in time for Fathers Day. Maybe Preslee knew just what you both needed and urged her brother as a gift for her Daddy. :) What a special and lucky baby to be sent to your family. I feel like so many prayers in your behalf have been answered when asking for happiness and light back into your lives. Father in Heaven loves His children... sweet Ledger is a testimony of that.

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  40. Becky GonceJune 19, 2011 at 10:17 PM

    I am SO happy for you! What a precious boy!

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  41. RosalieJune 20, 2011 at 7:19 AM

    What a beautiful tribute to your amazing husband! What cute pics of baby Ledger too! Love it! Can't wait to hear the story!

    Much love!

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  42. BeverlyJune 20, 2011 at 8:23 AM

    He is a beautiful baby! Happy Father's Day Pat (a little late). And I'm sure Mother's Day a little late is just as sweet. He is precious. Congratulations, I'm so happy for all four of you! I'm sure Preslee is smiling down and enjoying every minute.

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  43. AnonymousJune 20, 2011 at 9:12 AM

    I am so profoundly happy for you guys...I can't even imagine the great happiness this baby boy has brought to your lives & your home. Have fun, enjoy him!

    Vicky T
    Phoenix, AZ

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  44. Susan SutherlinJune 20, 2011 at 9:53 AM

    So happy for all of you.

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  45. MelanieJune 20, 2011 at 12:06 PM

    Ashley,
    I am so happy for you and for Pat. Congratulations on your sweet beautiful little angel Ledger. My family and I have prayed for you during your difficult time and we continue to pray for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers:)
    love,
    Melanie Rigby Heiner

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  46. MelanieJune 20, 2011 at 12:07 PM

    Ashley,
    I am so happy for you and for Pat. Congratulations on your sweet beautiful little angel Ledger. My family and I have prayed for you during your difficult time and we continue to pray for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers:)
    love,
    Melanie Rigby Heiner

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  47. AnonymousJune 20, 2011 at 9:25 PM

    I went on vacation this last week and thought, I wonder if Ashley and Pat had their little boy and YOU DID!!! He is so amazingly beautiful. Congratulations!!!

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  48. TracieJune 21, 2011 at 3:31 PM

    Many congrats-he is just precious! I have followed your blog this past year. My youngest(of 4)is excatly 3 months older than Preslee so it really hit me hard. My heart breaks for what you have been through. I know your sweet baby boy will bring joy back to your hearts. Many hugs & prayers.

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  49. KristyJune 22, 2011 at 11:00 PM

    Congrats! You don't know me, but I've been following your blog and have shed many tears in your behalf. He is perfect! I am so happy for you and will continue to pray for you guys and hope the pain of your loss will continue to fade.

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  50. Adam & BrandiJune 23, 2011 at 3:19 PM

    My oh my! Congratulations on sweet baby Ledger. He's adorable that is for sure. I am beyond delighted for you and Pat. I bet you can not get enough of such sweetness! So happy for you guys.

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  51. Mary Sheehan WinnJune 25, 2011 at 9:24 AM

    So happy for you all. Congratulations.

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