last year I list a baby to trisomy 18 she gave our family an incredible 20minutes. The thing that had been the hardest is the ridicule I now receive because I often times would vent on Facebook to help me deal with my emotions. I think as someone who had had a losse one of the things that would have still would bee most helpful is if people would take the time to understand that everyone grieves differently. There is no right or wrong way. When you loose a child you simply do the best you can.