This is Pat, Preslee's daddy. Although the last five days have been an extreme blur to us and our family, I felt a strong impression last night to write and update myself. First I just wanted to say thank you. We will never be able to express the gratitude that we have for the many people who are praying and rooting for my little Angel. Preslee has been perfect from day one, she was never a sick baby, she laughed, smiled, looked perfect. When she started getting a little bit older Pres and I began to bond a lot more. She is my little cuddle buddy. We have done almost everything together for the last 18 months. This little girl has become the highlight and focus of our lives. I never truly understood happiness or love until she was born. Preslee is an active little girl. When she started to walk, she started to run. She and I were a lot like at this age is what I've been told. I hope that I can some day be half as brave and half as strong as my little girl has been over the past 5 days.
She is so so special.
She is so so special.
When we heard what happened due to the accident, I wasn't sure what to think, my worst nightmare was coming to life. To be honest, when I think about the possibility of losing my little girl the thing that scares me the most is that I won't be a father anymore. I don't know what to do besides being a dad. I love every minute of being a father and spending time with Pres. Although the doctors don't give us much hope or positive outlook for the future, we still believe. I can honestly say that our faith in God and in his plan has not wavered. She is in His hands right now. He is a God of miracles and we know that with faith all things are possible. A lot of people have asked me if during this process we have asked, "Why us?" or "Why would God let something like this happen to our family?" We have had more of the thought process of "Why not us?" This was an accident that happened and we are trying to deal with this the best we can and that is with patience and the gospel of Jesus Christ. We never realized how many sick children and families are in PCMC. There is a family from Blackfoot that had their little girl drowned last Wednesday. Please pray for the Jensen's and all of the other children here in the hospital. We appreciate your love and support so much.
My wife is amazing. Every time one of us feels a little weak the other(Ashley) lifts me back up. I have never felt so helpless just sitting and watching. My beautiful wife is holding our angel girl right now and it has been pretty amazing to see my wife smile throughout this whole event. We thank you so much for your prayers and compassion. Little Preslee needs our prayers, love and support during this time. She is still critical and not making much progress as of now, but we still have faith and believe all things are possible with God's help. THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH!! She already has been "Daddy's little Miracle".
Patrick,
Preslee's daddy.
this little girl is a special one .... wow this will make ya cry ... i dont know you but i can tell that your a great strong loving family ! lucks to ya
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11 year old
hailey cutler 8)
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ReplyDeleteALL things are possible with God. keep believing and loving that little angel and we will all keep praying. God Bless You Three,
ReplyDeletelove,
a mommy in Salt Lake City
ps: the doctors told me I wouldn't live once, would definitely not have children and I am currently healthy, medicine-free and the proud mommy of a beautiful baby girl. never stop believing.
Pat,
ReplyDeleteYour family remains in our thoughts and prayers. All of our faith and love: The Rammells
Your story is so inspiring! I put your little girl's name in the temple today in Rexburg, Idaho. We are praying for her recovery! Never stop believing!
ReplyDeleteA mom from Rexburg, Idaho
What a sweet post. What a testimony builder it is to observe you and Ashley through all of this. How special you must be for God to put you in these shoes. What trust he must have in you two. I love you all and will continue to pray.
ReplyDeleteI never got a chance to meet you, Pat, but someone who is lucky enough to have Ashley for a wife must be one amazing guy :)
ReplyDeleteYour faith in inspiring, and I so admire the way you, Ashley and your families are handling this. I pray for Preslee constantly, and I've felt Heaven's love for her as I'm praying for a miracle.
Please know how much you, Ashley and Preslee and are loved and admired.
Emily Eyring
Your little girl is lucky to have you both as her parents. She has such a loving family and I know that she can feel that love. It's eternal and goes on forever. I am praying for her recovery and also for you both. Hang in there!! She could really surprise those doctors, you know.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you all at this special time. It sounds like your faith is not wavering and you are right God makes no mistakes! Many people are praying. I have your precious daughters name right in front of me to pray as I see her name. Since I work from my computer, thats alot of prayers! Miracles still do happen! Keep the faith. God is right in that room with you and your angel. A co worker of Caras, Marilyn White
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful post!
ReplyDeleteI just want to tell you...don't give up! Miracles can and do happen everyday. My son suffered a brain injury in a car accident 4 years ago, so I've walked this path too...Never, never give up hope!
Pat- Thanks for sharing your testimony, as I know that it is sometimes the only thing that gets us through times like these. Throughout the many days and hours I have spent at hospitals with my dad I soon found a love for them. The spirit in those empty halls is so strong, I often found that it was where I felt the Lord literally walking those halls with me. I knew that I wasn't going to be able to get through those days with Him. I know that He is there with your family. Miracles really do happen, I have seen them first hand, I trust in his plan for each of us!
ReplyDeleteMuch love- Kurt and Michelle Nielson
Daddies and their daughters are so precious. We are not giving up hope! Preslee is always in our thoughts and prayers. We love you guys! Please keep fighting Preslee!
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The Carter's
HOLD ON! That was a beautiful post! Preslee is amazing as well as her family and I wish we didn't have to meet under these circumstances. Heavenly Father is watching over His little ones and your family and there are angels surrounding room 6! Don't give up! There is only sooo much medicine can do--she WILL be okay--whatever that may be. Come talk to us anytime you need to! We love you guys!!!
ReplyDeletePat, you probably don't know me. I am in Hibbard 4th Ward with Ashley's parents and Ashley was a laurel when I served in Young Womens. I am also Chelsea Beckstrand's sister in law (Dave's older sister) You're right-Ashley is amazing! Always has been and the two of you together are superior! That post was beautiful and a tear jerker. The many prayers I offer every day for Preslee and all of you are some of the most precious times of my day. I know Heavenly Father is watching over all of you and loves you all dearly. Thanks for your examples of strength, hope, and faith! We love you all so much! We have a constant prayer in our hearts for you, Ash, Preslee, and all your famlly members. When we've been at PCMC our eyes have been opened to so many who are struggling just as you are! It helps to know that others are feeling the same pain and heartache as you are and that you are never alone!
ReplyDeleteKatie Sommer
What a great post! You guys are truly amamzing! I understand the bond between daddys and their little girls-I see it with my husband and our 22 month old! Keep the strength and the hope-miracles happen!!
ReplyDelete-Carolyn Thurman (patterson)
what a strong family! we love you so much! we love you pres!
ReplyDeletePraying for your daughter.
ReplyDeleteI just wanted to let you know that your little Preslee is in my prayers! My daughter, London, is almost 3 and she was born with a rare neurological disorder called 'pachygyria'. Developmentally she's like an infant... We are up at Primary's quite often. We live about 45 minutes away so if there's EVER ANYTHING you need please let me know. I know you don't know me, but I'd more than happy to help any way I can. Prayers and hugs to you all and especially for Preslee's quick recovery!
ReplyDeleteI am praying for another miracle for your family. Recoveries like this take so much time, but it can happen. I have seen it. You are a beautiful family and I pray for little Preslee. Beautiful post.
ReplyDeleteWe Love you Pres! You man make it Princess!! WE BELIEVE IN MIRACLES!! Pat and Ash you are AMAZING we pray for you a bazillion times a day! WE LOVE YOU
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Brek and Abbie
Pat & Ashley,
ReplyDeleteYou guys are soo amazing! Our daughter Sky just turned two a couple months ago and since you're basically family (Terry is Kyle's aunt), this hits close to home-we are praying for your sweet little Preslee and your entire family. We live in West Jordan so please let us know if you need ANYTHING!
Love,
Sam & Kyle Wescott
#208-403-5016
That was a wonderful post...thank you for updating us. Healing from a brain injury is very slow going. My little girl only started really "coming around" and showing awareness about 2 months after her illness. Give her time and know that there are many of us praying for your little girl.
ReplyDeletewhen i just read the latest post on pat and ash's blog i could help but cry and feel love for them. yesterday wes and i went do to see preslee, it tore my heart out but it was the most amazing feeling. the spirt was so strong there. i admire pat and ashley i honestly dont think i could be as strong as they are. i just wanted you guys to know how much we love you and we are keeping you in out thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteMy prayers are with you. My husband and I were talking about your situation last night, and our hearts were just breaking; yet hoping and knowing that what God has in store for Preslee is so important. It is amazing that even though this could be one of the hardest things to go through as a family; you have people who you may not know, you giving support.
ReplyDeletePatrick, that was such an amazing post!! I don't think there's anything sweeter than the bond between a daddy and daughter. Preslee is very lucky to have you as her father, to be able to be so strong and full of faith!! Never give up hope, miracles happen every day and we are praying for you guys & your sweet little girl!!
ReplyDeleteI have shed so many tears for your family. My husband and I are good friends with your Dad's neighbors (The Shippens) and watched from a near by home as the events unfolded that night. We have been praying for you little angel everyday and we hope that she can continue to be strong! Thank you for all the updates-we keep you guys in our thoughts and prayers everyday!
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Hello...y'all don't know me but I heard about your family from my nephew's wife, Lauren evans. Your family is in my prayers! As I write this I am sitting in a hospital bed with my sick son. I can relate with many of the feelings you are experiencing. My heart goes out to you. No parent should have to see their child suffer. Your daughter is beautiful. All the best...tammy
ReplyDeleteGod bless you! We spoke with our two sweet children tonight, and as a family we will be rooting and praying for Preslee and her two amazing parents! You story is touching and your faith is so bond belief. You will never know what you have done to lift the faith of others as you have chosen to share it with all of us! And you are so right, God is a God of miracles. I believe.
ReplyDeleteJust want you to know that a family in Maryland is praying for your family tonight. My heart aches for you all as you wait to see how the miracles unfold.
ReplyDeletePatrick you and Ash amaze me.That is a true testimony builder to so many people (members and non-members), thank you. Keep being an example to those parents around you in the PICU as well as your little angel. We're rooting for ya Pres
ReplyDeleteI continue to check on Preslee. I pray that she gets the miracle she deserves. Every update brings me to tears. I hope your sweet baby girl has a good night and that you get some rest. I will check back in the morning. I hope with all my heart that she starts improving soon...sending love and prayers from Kentucky...
ReplyDeleteMy sorrow goes to you and your family! With a little girl of my own it is hard to imagine anyone in that situation, especially when you end up there yourself. I am sorry you have to watch your daughter go through this but those little ones are stronger than they look. Don't ever give up on her. My family will pray for you and I know that with Heavenly Father's guidance you will find support and a happy ending. Be strong!
ReplyDeleteI came across your blog a few days ago and I want to say I am amazed and in awe of your spirit! Keep the fight and courage. You are an inspiration to many. The Lord does good work. He will be with you through this hard time in your lives. I pray for the best and will think of you daily!
ReplyDeleteI am not sure how I happened to come across your blog but am glad that I did. I don't know you but my heart breaks reading about your beautiful Preslee. I will pray and continue to pray for your family. His powers knows no bounds. God Bless.
ReplyDeleteI don't know you but I grew up with and love the Tibbitts family. I can't seem to get your sweet little family out of my mind. I have a daughter the same age as Preslee and can't imagine the pain you are feeling. We have a little cousin who 4 years ago was run over in his grandparents driveway. He suffered severe head injuries and spent a lot of time at PCMC. They were also told not to get their hopes up and today he is healthy as can be. Prayer is a powerful thing and we will continue to keep you in ours. All the best and God bless you.
ReplyDeleteJenna Crapo
I found your blog from a link on mormonmommyblogs, and I don't know you at all, but I have a two year old little boy. We're praying for you and your little Preslee here in Texas!
ReplyDeleteYou are in our prayers! Love the Ericksons
ReplyDeletePat and Ash,
ReplyDeleteRhett and I just wanted to let you know how much we love and admire you both. You are such amazing people and have a remarkable little family. Little Preslee is so strong and is such a fighter. We are praying for her daily.
We love you!
-Tiffani
Dear Patrick, Ashley and Preslee...
ReplyDeleteI was invited by a friend through Facebook...I just wanted to say that my family and I are praying for your sweet little one (and for you). I cannot imagine what you are going through, but with the Gospel in our lives we have such a blessing to know of Heavenly Fathers plan! How grateful I am for Eternal Families!!! I wanted to let you know that I not only put Preslee's name on the prayer roll here in the Billings Montana Temple, but I put yours as well. I hope you can find strength, peace and comfort through this! :)
I've been looking at blog each day for any updates, and stalking it but the posts have been inspiration. After I heard about this accident I started to shed a few tears since I have a niece who is almost 16 months old. I pray daily for your little one, and your posts have been an inspiration to me. As well as, others. My prayers are with you and your family.
ReplyDeleteMy prayers are with you. Stay strong and healthy for Preslee. Thank you for helping me cherish my children even more. Our trials make us stronger and help us appreciate our blessings. Countless strangers are rooting for Preslee!
ReplyDeleteStay strong, your both amazing parents and wonderful examples. Pat, I am so proud of you, you have become such a AMAZING dad, you make me cry because I am so proud of your strength. Your wife & baby girl are so lucky to have such a strong Priesthood holder as a daddy, and your pretty lucky to have such a beautiful and strong wife and baby. We're still praying and so hopeful. I know Im not in the family anymore but I still love you all lots,
ReplyDeleteAnnalee
Pat and Ash, I hope you know how much you are loved. You are in every prayer! I heard a saying by Mother Teresa which said something like..."God tries those he loves, I just wish he didn't love me so much." Well, you certainly are loved and are an amazing example to all of us. Your faith and love and testimony strengthens us. Pat, no matter what, you will always be a father, your most important calling in all eternity!
ReplyDeleteWE LOVE YOU, Linda Webster and family
You are an amazing man Pat. Thanks for your words. It's good to hear how much you adore your baby girl. Your testimony is so great in the face of such trial. I am praying for you guys!
ReplyDeleteHi Pat and Ashley. You don't know me but Somehow I came across your blog and story and you have all been my family's prayers since. Especially for your absolutely darling little Preslee. What a gorgeous little girl. My heart is breaking for your family and what you're going through and your faith and strength alone is incredible. Heavenly Father is aware of your family and is hearing your prayers. He has a plan and little Preslee is being taken care of on both sides. Miracles do happen and please know prayers on your behalf are being said here in Texas. Thanks for the updates and hang in there. With love, the Renchers.
ReplyDeleteHang in there you guys. We are all rooting for your sweet little angel.
ReplyDeletePat buddy, This is Jeremy, Thanks for the update. I must say, I have been thinking about you alot the last 5 days. Wondering how you have been holding up and praying that you have the strength to get through these difficult times. Hearing from you was truly an inspiration. Although you have not personally been asking "Why me" I have personally been asking myself "Why Pat". I didnt think it was fair that such a great guy like you deserved to go through something like this. I know that the very thought of this happening to one of my own children is enough to send tears to my eyes and think to myself, "There is no way I could do this" Reading your blog and hearing you speak is truly inpirational. I am so proud of you and pray each and every day for that one final miracle to take place. I want you to know that the entire Hammond and Virgin family is constantly thinking and praying for you. We love you Pat.:)
ReplyDeleteWe don't know your sweet family, but are praying for little Preslee. I have 4 young children who have so much faith. WE are praying for a miracle. May the Lord be with you at this difficult time. Love, A mom in Orem, Utah
ReplyDeleteYou are in our thoughts & prayers! I keep thinking of this quote that appeared in the Ensign a few months back & feel impressed to share it with you:
ReplyDelete"If you are helpless, He is not. If you are lost, He is not. If you don't know what to do next, He knows. It would take a miracle, you say? Well, if it takes a miracle, why not?"
~President Boyd K. Packer~
God is a God of Miracles! He hears you & is With You! We don't know you personally but feel close to your Spirits! We will continually pray that God will continue to comfort you & send many more miracles your way!
Heather (UT)
Your sweet little Preslee puts me so much in mind of my little 10-month-old Oliver. Our whole family is praying for you to get your miracle.
ReplyDeleteThis post sure brought the tears! Thank you pat! Your families names are in a few temples around utah! I have been very emotionally involved with this trial that is happening in your family. I have never stopped having a prayer in my heart! I know that everything happens for a reason and let me tell you, I sure have learned my share from this. I hug my girls a little tighter, I'm a little bit more patient and I literally treasure every single second I have! I love you guys! Keep a hold of that faith and hope, that you hold so dear!
ReplyDeleteI worked with Ashley at the SnoShack when I was in high school and my parents are in the same ward as your dad and stepmom. Our family has been following Preslee's progress and praying for your little family, but I wanted to thank you for sharing your testimony because it was definately a tender mercy of the Lord in my life today; definately what I needed to hear.
ReplyDeleteWow, what an amazing family you are. I don't know you but my prayers are with you and your family at this time, keep believing, our God is a God of miracles.
ReplyDeleteWonders never cease that one baby girl could change so many hearts. There are people from all around this world praying for you and Preslee. Our family continues as well. God is a God of miracles. Hold tight to that. He loves you and is holding Preslee in his arms. I think we all feel so helpless. You don't know most of us and we don't know what to do. So we continue to pray. I guess that's the best answer.
ReplyDeletePrayers multiple times a day from Arizona! I hope you can have a miracle like Bronson...I pray for it EVERYDAY! Your updates are my most anticipated internet checks. Preslee is just beautiful and perfect...keep the faith.
ReplyDeleteHi Pat & Ash. Thanks for sending me back a text message, Pattycake. I could hardly get my message out in my voicemail, as I can't even think about you guys without crying. I love you so much and hurt so badly with you and for you. Whatever happens will be a miracle. No matter which way things go, God is at the Helm, and it will be His miracle that happens. Hold fast to your faith. Submit your will to His. Know that all the Mortensens are loving and praying for you constantly. You are amazing and wonderful kids, and no matter what happens, it will be right. What an honor to have been given such a little Angel like Preslee. She is a perfect spirit and she is yours forever. All our love, Cami & Family
ReplyDeletePat & Ashley-
ReplyDeleteYou have no idea who I am but my mom and dad are friends with Terri and Dorsi. I can't even tell you the tears I have shed for your family. It absolutely breaks my heart to see such a precious life have to bear so much. You guys are so strong and I know you are being comforted and watched over. My little girl is 3 and prays for Preslee every night...it makes me cry. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers and we are praying for a miracle for your family.
Lots of love-
Missy
Came across the story through another blog. I have sent the link to everyone I can to get prayers and God's grace on Preslee. We are thinking about you all and praying for you. I believe in the power of prayer and I believe in miracles.
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Shelly
Olathe, KS
What a great daddy Preslee has. You guys are so strong. My family and I are praying for sweet Preslee. I am so thankful for these updates.. I get up every morning and check and check 4 or 5 times a day just to hear what has changed and what is going on. Hang in there you guys!
ReplyDeleteI am another one of those you don't know mes. But I work at Madison Memorial with Terri and Dorsie.And lived down the road from Ashley when she was a teenager. Our thoughts are with you and your family at this time. I explained what happened to my four year old and he said "well mom we better start praying for her." So the prayers are coming from all of the Muir family her in Rexburg
ReplyDeleteKeep the faith, we are praying for you. We also believe in miracles and pray for one for Preslee everyday. Our little 2 yr old wants to check on Preslee everyday to see if she is better yet. Preslee ia a miracle in our lives already and we've never met her. She is changing lives of countless people through this experiece. We love you.
ReplyDeleteCameron, Heather and Aleksandra Walker
Preslee is just so darling and clearly a strong, brave girl. Lots of hugs and healing prayers being sent to you from Raleigh, NC.
ReplyDeletePat,
ReplyDeleteYou are my hero man, We want you to know that yall are in our prayers and will continue to be!It sounds like you and ashley are becoming stronger and closer through this tough situation and are great examples of how everyone should be during hard times! Stay Strong Preslee
Ryan and Taucia
I knew Ashley way back when...we tumbled together and I know Jodi from my Auntie Jolyn...I know it's random, but I wanted to thank you for this beautiful post. It is so tender and sweet to hear about the way a great father loves his little girl. Your sweet family is in our prayers and we are glad you're finding strength in your testimonies. We are rooting for little Preslee as well as you and Ashley. Miracles happen!
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Natalie (Liljenquist) Clark
Oh how my heart aches for your family. I've been praying hard for little Preslee, and I feel so sure that God will indeed restore her health to her.
ReplyDeleteMay angels continue to camp about her bedside, and God continue to comfort your family.
I am Tiffani's sister and just wanted to say what an amazing family you are. Preslee is such a beautiful little girl and our thoughts and prayers are continually with you. God is a God of miracles, and more than anything, He is our loving Heavenly Father and through Him ALL things are possible. We Beleive!
ReplyDeleteThanks Patrick for leaving this post. Your testimony of the Gospel is so strong, it sent goosebumps up my back. Our family will continue to pray for the health and strength of Preslee. You and Ashley are such amazing people, and you do have one sweet baby girl. Keep fighting Preslee, WE LOVE YOU!!
ReplyDeleteFrom the Bush Family,
ReplyDeleteEvery time we read the posts we cry! "Every day has the possibility of a miracle!" You are wonderful people. We took the opportunity to fast and pray for little Preslee. It was the first time for our kids to fast and such a worthy cause. We pray for comfort, strength and healing to come quickly. Sending our love to you all. Josh, Deneece & Kids.
We are praying for your strong little angel & her amazing parents as well. What a beautiful little princess you guys have! I am sending love & compassion your way.
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The Anderson's of Cache Valley, UT
I also heard about little Preslee from a friend. I love this little girl and have never met her!!! I could just feel the sweetest spirit reading this blog. You are in our prayers and we are rooting for that sweet baby. Angels are with her. Hang in there:)
ReplyDeleteYou met my wonderful husband, Matt, yesterday. I am sorry I could not sneak away to come along and throw my arms around you myself... I hope to do that someday, but until then, I just needed to write again and share a few things that I was unable to get written to you before he had to leave to race up to Salt Lake... You've been in my thoughts ever since.
ReplyDeleteFirst, you should know that I received several emails yesterday morning that took my breath away... My stomach tied in a knot and sunk to where it still remains... You see, I know very well those cold lonely hallways and the heartache you feel as you watch sweet Preslee struggling amid too many tubes and a tangle of wires... all keeping her alive while she fights to heal... her life, hanging in the balance. I know how helpless you must feel... the agony of waiting... and waiting... and still not knowing... the minutes that tick by like hours... the days that blur together in an endless haze of anguish... despair... regret... the what ifs... the what thens... Oh how I know them.
But I also know the sweetness you are learning, firsthand... the army of angels that suround you, fighting ceaselessly on her behalf... the tender mercies being continually poured out upon you... and the strength and closeness you are discovering that you never imagined you could possibly have.
Just a few months ago, I sat in your chair by the bedside of our sweet, beautiful little boy, Bronson, who had drowned at home on what should have been my watch. In my case, the weight of the guilt I felt was physically crushing...
So when I heard of little Preslee, and pictured you there beside her, the grief-laden memories came rushing back... I had to DO something!
I hope you will forgive the imposition of our surprise visit and the random-ness of the basket* we sent. I know how trivial and how trite it must seem and am very aware that it can not FIX anything that you are going through right now, but I wanted to help to sustain you in some small way. We wanted you to know that we have been where you are and we understand the extremes of what you are experiencing. No doubt the hardest times you have ever had, and yet I am sure you are finding there are little things that bring so much comfort... true and absolute JOY along the path. That's what makes it all bearable... (cont'd below)
Pat, I know that being a Father (and mother) is one of our greatest callings in life. So far, you and Ashley have been wonderful parents to Preslee and you have loved her like she deserves to be loved. Through this experience, you will become even a better Father, and Ashley a better mother. You will both be able to appreciate life more than many others know how. You will really know what it means to "savor every moment". You will be a greater Father to your future children who will eventually enter your life because of this accident; no matter what the final outcome is. You and Ashley definitely know what it means to LOVE. You are a great husband and a great Father.
ReplyDeleteLove, Andy
I can't tell you how much we have been thinking about little Preslee and about you two. I have never had the privilege of meeting her but she is Pat's daughter and Pat will forever be one of the greatest people I've ever had the opportunity to spend time with and I'm sure his little munchkin follows in his footsteps. Are prayers are with you're family and we love you so very much. Keep the Faith.
ReplyDeleteChad
Pat you are an amazing father and we are all praying for your family but most of all Preslee!!!!
ReplyDeleteCome On little one! I know you can do it!
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ReplyDeleteJust wanted you to know that the ED at EIRMC is keeping up with Preslee's condition daily and will continue to keep her in our thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteNate
Dearest Ashley and Pat,
ReplyDeleteWe have watched you guys grow up since you were cute little munchkins. It is hard to believe that you are all grown up and now you are having to grow up way to fast. My heart aches for you and I wish I could carry a portion of your burden, but I can't. So I pray that our Savior makes this time bearable for you. I feel in a very real way, little Preslee is in his arms and he is in charge and everything will somehow work out. I know you have wonderful families and amazing support of wonderful friends and an entire community, but ultimately, the master is there for you. He knows each of your names. He has felt what you are feeling, and only he knows every feeling of your heart. He will always know what you need and how to nurture you. He is always there. Just lean on him. We all pray for a miracle, and yet, it depends on the Lord's will. We all love and support you, With all my Love and prayers,
Brad Egbert
I saw this on my friend Stacy's blog. I grew up in Hibbard Idaho with her. I can not imagine what you are going through. I do think God would not give you these trials if He didn't think you all could handle them, I know I couldn't.
ReplyDeleteMy family and I are praying for you guys daily. And for me she is in my thoughts, I can not stop thinking about your sweet little girl.
Jon and Jaimie Howard. Lehi, Utah
Pat and Ashley, I'm not close to either of you and yet my heart is aching for you as you experience this horrible trial. Your family is in my prayers and I have been strengthen by your faith! I've seen many miracles in my life, and I know Christ loves his little ones! Hang in there, and keep the faith, it has power beyond our comprehension! Chantell (Fluckiger) Hammond
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry that this happened to your little girl. I will prey for you and your family and get the word out on my facebook and blog about the auctions taking place. You're in our thoughts and prayers your daughter reminds me so much of my own. She is absolutely beautiful.
ReplyDeleteBless sweet little Preslee. Your update, Pat, was exceptional. You, Ashley, and Preslee are definitely in my thoughts and prayers. Bless you all.
ReplyDeleteToday I receive a phone call by a Tyson Marlor who was asking to place a jar in the window of Sno Shack and Snoasis in Rexburg for contributions. I was delighted to help in any way possible and was shocked to see the donations made in just a half day. Thanks to Rexburg and BYUI students for your help and we will continue to provide ways to help. I love this family and will pray for you. Sincerely, Robyn Eastin
ReplyDeleteI just know your little Preslee must love you snuggling up with her right now. She is so blessed to have so many family and friends sending prayers and love her way. I know that each day your little miracle will grow stronger and stronger. I read once that when we are ill and trying hard to recover that the feelings of love and faith from our loved ones are felt and it helps us grow stronger each day. I will continue to Pray for Preslee's speedy recovery. Hang in and stay strong. Lots of love
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ReplyDeleteJust a few months ago, I sat in your chair, by the bedside of our sweet, beautiful little boy, Bronson, who had drowned at our home, on what should have been my watch... In my case, the weight of the guilt I felt was physically crushing. So when I heard of your sweet little Preslee and pictured you there beside her, the grief-laden memories came crashing back... I HAD to DO something.
I hope you will forgive the imposition of our surprise visit and the random-ness of the basket* we brought you. I know how empty and how trite it must seem... How trivial... I am very aware that it can not FIX anything you are going through right now, but I hope it will help to sustain you in some small way. I hope it will bring you comfort to know that we have been there and know how it feels.
And what we really wanted to share was hope. I saw the temple in your wedding portraits below on your blog, and so I know that we share the same faith. And for THAT, I am so, SO grateful... I do not know how anyone could endure this without an understanding of the Plan of Salvation. It absolutely sustained us. Things I thought I understood before are now concreted into the fibers of my soul.
There is a God in Heaven, Patrick and Ashely. He is a wonderfull, loving, merciful Father, who loves the two of you and Preslee very much. He knows infinitesimally what you need and will walk beside you throughout this challenging time. He hears your prayers. Every one. And He hears ours, said in your behalf... For our family is praying for Preslee and for each of YOU, every single day. We pray that through your own prayers, and through the power of the priesthood, you will find the strength to discover God's will for Preslee's life and then the courage to follow it. (cont'd below...)
Prayers from Wisconsin!! I don't know you personally, but I am a mom who loves my children as you do!! Your story is both heartbreaking and inspirational, and I know that prayers work!! Faith, hope, and love will see you through. The Lord is with all of you, and miracles can and DO happen! Stay strong, and keep fighting little one!! With sincerity and prayer, Mom of two daughters and one son
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ReplyDeleteI hope you will forgive me for sharing something so deeply personal, but I feel that it might bring you some comfort... I remember distinctly the moment I stood there, with Bronson's broken little body lying in front of me, not knowing what was left of his mind. It was terrifying... The uncertainty... But as I silently prayed, an overwhelming peace washed over me like a wave and I realized that Bronson's spirit was still completely perfect, completely intact, and completely untouched. And I knew, in that moment, that it would remain so, come what may... I felt of his incredible strength and the valiance of his spirit. His His poor little body seemed so vulnerable, so frail. And yet I knew that the great and mighty God, of both Heaven and earth, had the power and the wisdom to heal it's intricacies. And I knew that if Heavenly Father needed him here, and if Bronson chose to remain, then he would heal and survive. And whatever lessons we were to learn from him, I vowed to graciously be taught in whatever form they came... with whatever limitations or adaptations might need to be made, knowing they would only be mortal, and thus, so very temporary. But if his mission was to be there, on the other side of the veil, then Bronson would accept, and we, those who loved him, would also find a way to do so.
Oh friends, I do not envy where you are right now... And I pray I never have to endure anything so wrenching again, but I do want you to know that I am grateful for it now... not grateful that WE passed through this trial, but grateful that IT passed thrugh US. For it changed us to the core. You will have a different perspective on everything when you walk out of those doors. The world will never be the same. It is not over when you leave... it is just beginning.
This is way too long, so I will end with this promise... Our hearts and thoughts are with you, and our prayers will continue petitioning heaven to grant you the same miracle we have had within our family. All our best...
Your sister in Spirit~
Sara
*As a quick note of explanation about the basket... Please know it was a busy afternoon with no time to run to the grocery store to grab anything for you, so I just sent things I had on-hand in my pantry that I thought might be nice for you to have... Thinking about it now, I am sort of embarrassed by what a jumble it must have seemed like! I just wanted... no... I NEEDED to send SOMEthing, so I tried to remember what had been meaningful and helpful to us back in February. In hind-sight now, I realize hot chocolate and soup may seem strange to you in mid-July!)
Hoping she makes a full recovery very, very soon!
ReplyDeleteHi from Australia. Gods will be done. We pray for you, and know God loves each one of us. Be strong , for each other. Remember we are all God Jewels. Jenni
ReplyDeleteYou will always be a father to her. Also isn't it amazing how people from all over the world are praying, loving,and caring for someone they never met. That's what is amazing of this.
ReplyDeleteI pray for Preslee, I pray for you and your family.
I am thankful to the two men in the canal that night, so many things were in place to help with all these circumstances.
When I've been through hard times, I remember the song "I feel my saviors love," he is there with you and your daughter, to comfort you.
please update us as often as possible. Its just amazing as I read the comments of so much love and thought from everyone, whether family, friends or people you don't know is showing us how we should all live and be kind and compassionate.
Preslee, please hang in there, you have a very strong purpose to fulfill.
With lots of love
WOW!! My heart breaks, and I find myself reading a strangers blog over and over. I stumbled onto your blog about 4 hours ago, and found myself tossing and turning thinking of you and your sweet family.I have experienced such Miraculous Blesssings in my life, that i know there is a GOD, I know He has a plan, I know he loves his children, I know he holds us when we are down, and when we can't hold our babies, he is holding them. Your baby girl is an absolute angel. Keep the faith. May the Lord be with you. I discovered a song, in some of my darkest hours, it brought so much comfort. "There is a God" by Leann Womack. Beautiful, and so so true. "Peace I leave with you, My peace i give now unto you, Not as the world giveth, let not your heart be troubled niether let it be afraid" John 14:27
ReplyDeleteFollowing your blog and praying for Preslee everyday!
ReplyDeleteWhat a sweet post by Daddy! You guys are so strong with what you are going through. We continue to pray for you and sweet Preslee and your family.
ReplyDeleteDear Fatherin Heaven, I pray that you would heal little Preslee's body. Shower Your goodness and mercy upon this family. You alone are the source of life and joy. Restore this baby to complete health so that Your name will be praised.
ReplyDeleteYou don't know me but I found your blog through a friends link on facebook. Just wanted to let you know there are prayers for a miracle coming from chapel hill,NC! Continue to be strong, And as it says in psalms I believe, god knows every hair lost from the head and every bird that falls from the tree. He hears our prayers, there is nothing more beautiful than that! Keep fighting little one!
ReplyDeletePat, that was beautiful. Primary Children's is a very humbling place. We've never been on the medical floor like you, but we've seen our share of specialists. I often wonder how people make it through trials like this without the gospel. It is comforting to know that through Christ, all things are possible.
ReplyDeleteWe're praying for this sweet girl's quick recovery and for y'all in Charleston!
ReplyDeleteI found a link to your blog through someone that got the link from someone on facebook... I felt impressed to click on the link. I too am LDS. I live in Michigan. I have two toddlers and a little one on the way. I can't imagine the feelings you must be going through right now. You and your family are an inspiration and a great example to all. You are true testaments to the power of the gospel. We're praying for you here in Michigan.
ReplyDeleteSending prayers your way.
ReplyDeleteMy three little girls are praying for and talking about Presslee a lot. They've never met her, but consider her their dear friend. Keep believeing, doctor's don't always know what is to come. The Lord's will will be done whatever it may be. I know for sure He will give you strength to do what you need. We love you. We know miracles and tender mercies can and will happen for you. We know you've probably felt it, but there are so many angels about you. We felt that a lot with my Dad. I didn't realize though when we were struggling so what a gift that was. We love you.
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Thank you for your beautiful message, Pat. Your situation has changed our family and helped us appreciate our son more fully. We hold him longer and tighter, and we exercise more patience with each other. We are so sorry about what's happened to Preslee, but we know that as you and Ashley exercise your faith, you will continue to see miracles. We are praying for you.
ReplyDelete~ Terrah, Tyler & Miles Harper :)
I read your blog every day and offer prayers for all you each day also. You are an amazing family and teaching so many of us watching by the sidelines with your example, patience, love and faith in His plan. Hang in there.
ReplyDeleteWhen you think that no one can understand what you are going through, remember that during Christ's atonement he felt all of your pain, sorrows, and heartache. I know his loving arms are around you. We pray for you continually.
ReplyDeleteThe Healing
ReplyDeleteA bird
Once broken
Can never fly
They say
Quite so high
Again.
Perhaps.
But as for me
Now desperately
In need of healing
I have a healer
Who would restore
These foolish wings
Without a scar.
I will lie quiet
Beneath His touch.
I will listen
As He whispers
"Rise
And fall no more."
And then--
Then I shall
Soar.
- Carol Lynn Pearson
We love you guys and are thinking about you! We'll keep you in our prayers and hope you feel our support.
ReplyDeleteLove Scott & Gale, Beth & Kristin Willmore
We are constantly thinking about you guys! We are praying for you. We read a talk by Elder Holland called, "An High Priest of Good things to come". It is a great talk but something he said made me think of you. He said, "Some blessings come soon, some come late, and some don’t come until heaven; but for those who embrace the gospel of Jesus Christ, they come." We know that your little family will be blessed. Who knows when or how but you will be blessed. Good luck you guys!
ReplyDeleteSending prayers and healing thoughts for your daughter and family.
ReplyDeleteHey Pat, we have been praying for your family. I have no comprehension of what you guys are going through, but my heart is with you guys. Just know we are always thinking about your little girl and pray for her recovery. Love you guys.
ReplyDeleteDamon Mortensen
Oh Pat and Ashley,
ReplyDeleteWe are praying our guts out for your little family! What faith you all have and how incredible you are handling this terrible tragedy. We do believe, too and have faith that Heaven's hand will continue to bless your sweet Preslee and shower you all with peace and love.
You are in our thoughts always,
Lundquist Family (Jake, Nat and girls)
praying for you!!!
ReplyDeleteKeeping your family in my prayers and knowing that "man is the perfect expression of the infinite [God]."
ReplyDeleteStay strong!
Praying for you all!
ReplyDeleteC'mon Monkey!
I have been following your blog faithfully and have not commented, but I wanted you to know how touched I have been by your strength and your testimonies. You are living every parents worst nightmare and you are doing so with so much strength. Many thoughts and prayers are being said for you! Hang in there!
ReplyDeleteprayers coming from gilbert, az.
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Pat Ashley and little Preslee,
ReplyDeleteI wanted to tell you that seeing your faith has strengthened my testimony in so many ways. It has given me that push to pray more intently than I have before and study my scriptures. Thank you so much for this gift you have given me. In return I hope I can use the gift to bless your sweet family. I don't know you well but I love you and pray for you all day. Thank you for your gift.
That was a great post, I get up first thing every morning and check your guys blog for updates. There is nothing sweeter than a bond between a DADDY AND A DAUGHTER, my little girl just got that with my new husband. Have faith and be strong, watching you guys go through this is making me change some things I do, (like going back to church) you guys have inspired me SOOO much and I have prayed more in these last 5 days then I have in a long time. I am very sorry for what you guys are going through and I am praying for ALL of you! There can be miracles!!! Thank you Ashley and Pat for showing me the right way that I need to go!
ReplyDeletePreslee.... I know you can get through this. My heart is aching for you... I feel as though I've known you your entire life... I want you to know that we are all thinking about you. Pat and Ashley stay strong...
ReplyDeleteMiracles happen every day. I have no doubt that you will be lifted by hands seen and unseen as you continue to be faithful and trust in your Father in Heaven. My prayers go out to you and your sweet family.
ReplyDeleteHi, I live in Bountiful Ut and have family and friends in Rexburg, there was a link on my facebook in regards to the fundraisors for you little Presslee. What an angel you have, and you are so brave and strong to cope with all that has happened. You are in my family's prayers as well. Good luck to all of you
ReplyDeleteI can't even imagine how difficult this must all be for you. Keep your faith and trust in God and he will bless you. Little Preslee is in our prayers.
ReplyDeleteI can't even imagine how difficult this must all be for you. Keep your faith and trust in God and he will bless you. Little Preslee is in our prayers.
ReplyDeleteOf course you would never wish this to happen to you, but through it you have been able to see God's hand in every minute of your life right now. You guys are the perfect parents for little Preslee and she is so lucky to have you!
ReplyDeleteI haVE so much faith in this sweet little girl you can do it you have such a wonderful family hang in there preslee you have the world praying and fasting for you
ReplyDeleteThis experience has been heavy on all our hearts. To read that post gives great assurance and a testimony of your faith in God, His plan, and His Son. It strengths our belief that he lives and knows our thoughts, needs, and wants. We pray for you, Ashley, and above all little Preslee to be comforted, strengthened, and healed. But above all, we seek and pray for the Lords will be done.
ReplyDeleteWe have faith that he can heal Preslee.
With love,
The Thomasons
Patrick,
ReplyDeleteYou will never stop being Preslee's daddy any more than she will stop being your daughter. Families are forever, and no matter what happens, she is yours.
Prayers for your family are coming from all over the world, and we are all hoping for the brightest of miracles. Keep faith close to your hearts.
Pat, we love ya buddy. We pray for you, Ashley and little Preslee every night and we're confident the Lord will continue providing miracles. Keep the faith.
ReplyDeleteThe Marcums.
found your blog through a friend's.
ReplyDeletepatrick, you will always be a daddy, preslee's daddy. never forget that.
prayers for you in kennewick, washington.
-Lisa
I have never been so touched by people I don't know than I have by you and your daughter. I have prayed earnestly for your little family. I am a Nana to four beautiful little grandchildren. I can't imagine how scared you are. Keep your faith strong and hold on to one another and you will get through this... with Gods help! I went through this same type of thing 25 years ago.I have found that I have been able to help others because of it, that I know I couldn't of otherwise. Don't let your faith turn into hope...Turn it into knowledge! Know of his love for you and your daughter! Thanks again for sharing!
ReplyDeleteWe don't know each other, but my prayers are with you, and I put Preslee's name on the prayer roll in LV.
ReplyDeleteGod bless.
Hearts are aching all over for your family, but the prayers don't stop. Pat and Ash, know that your testimonies and strength, and especially that of little Preslee, strengthen all of us who even hear about your situation. Thank you for having such amazing faith and love for the Lord and all He's blessed you with. We can all take lessons from you.
ReplyDeleteKnow the Lord loves you for the love and care you have always shown and will always show to the precious ones He trusts you with. Preslee is so blessed to have you, as your are to have her. All things will work out with the strength of the Lord.
You ARE a father, and ALWAYS will be Preslees father. My husband and I lost our son in February, our first and only child, and we remind each other often--that we will ALWAYS be Jacks parents. You are in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteLynn in NH
I am a total stranger who just stumbled on to your blog. I am a 54 year old LDS grandma. on Sept 5th last year we lost our granddaughter who was 1 week old, to a heart defect. your post about the time in the hospital, the waiting and wondering, and finally realizing Heavenly father's will, were all to familiar. My love and prayers go out to you and your family.
ReplyDeletemay the spirit whisper peace to you and keep you strong in your faith. I know your angel girl is close by. ♥
Dearest Ashley and Pat
ReplyDeletefound your blog through a friends,
God is generous and all things are possible,keep believing and loving your little girl.
Praying for your daughter
God bless you
regards from Spain
ROSA
you will always be her Daddy, you will always and forever be a father. i'm still Mommy 20 years after my daughter was given back to Our Heavenly Father. it will never cease to be <3
ReplyDeletePatrick, you will always be Preslee's mommy and daddy! Her temporary departure does not change that! She is YOURS, and she will always be with you! You are definitely in our thoughts and prayers, know us or not! This community will rally around you! Know you will never be alone!
ReplyDeleteTears literally started rolling down my cheeks as I read this. You guys are awesome parents & as a wife (& hopefully, someday a mother)it is so nice to see a husband/father so appreciative of his wife & so loving of his child. You are all in my prayers
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