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Home grief Philly Preslee No Regrets

No Regrets

Oh, what I wouldn’t do to be able to pick up this sweet little girl and just squeeze her.
I’d definitely never let go.

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(Summer of 2009)

One of my only regrets dealing with Preslee happened the night of her accident. As we were leaving, Pat was able to steal a hug from her, but before he could hand her over to me, she wiggled her way out of his arms and chased after her cousin, Ace. I tried to grab her as she ran past, but the quick little thing slipped out of my fingers. I remember thinking, “It will only be a couple of hours.” never dreaming it would be the last time I saw her healthy.

I’m getting emotional thinking about that night,
so before the ugly tears begin to fall, I’m off to go and hug my three boys.
It’s something I make sure happens Every.Single.Day.

If I have any piece of advice it would be,go and hug your little ones today,
(give your little girls an extra hug for me) 

In fact, lets make sure to hug our kiddos multiple times a day,
because life is precious, and tender,
and no one knows what tomorrow holds.
// Labels: grief, Philly, Preslee
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7 comments:

  1. ReenieFebruary 2, 2016 at 8:35 AM

    <3

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  2. JennFebruary 2, 2016 at 12:40 PM

    perfect reminder for those rough days with little ones. thank you for that <3

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  3. Ashley ZieglerFebruary 2, 2016 at 1:29 PM

    ## praying for you.

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  4. Cade and KelsieFebruary 2, 2016 at 3:17 PM

    Our son was in the hospital and the last time I saw him awake and coherent before passing I went and saw him, but we had a 6 month old son as well and it was 9:30 pm at night and our 6 month old was exhausted. I went into see him. I hugged him and loved on him, but I had to hurry out. By the time I got back the next day he was in a procedure and he wasn't coherent again. I often struggle thinking about how torn I felt between our two boys and I wished I could have stayed a little longer...Hugs to you!

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  5. UnknownFebruary 2, 2016 at 7:24 PM

    Preslee's chunky arm rolls are the best. Beautiful reminder of how short of a time we have. Big hugs to you, Cade & Kelsie too! <3

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  6. amandaFebruary 2, 2016 at 10:09 PM

    Oh I am so sorry, this is so heartbreaking! As a mom I can only imagine those feelings even having the knowledge that she knows how much you love her and this is only one moment in countless moments where you and her connected. You are strong and are such a loving, wonderful mother!

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  7. ShwetablogApril 19, 2016 at 4:21 AM

    nice

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