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1 Month Old Twins

(Aug. 17 - Sept. 17)
We are still alive…barely. Winking smile
two month old twins 
The second month proved to be much more demanding than the first. When we first brought the boys home all they did was sleep and I turned down help because I was busy, but not overwhelmed. Then as soon as the second month began, the boys woke up. Thank goodness my mom has come to the rescue multiple times a week! Both boys struggle being awake without being held, or having a binky in their mouth.
This past month we have experienced many sleepless nights, more crying than we can take at times, neglecting Ledger more than we would like to, a few breakdowns from all of us, and many joyful moments to counteract the difficult.

Personalities two month old twins
  • Cannon – Reminds me of Ledger.. a little more high strung. Already seems to react well to being on a schedule. Dislikes cuddling with Cruiz or laying next to him. He is always squirming, and from day one has always been very alert. Cannon usually eats first because he’s more impatient and usually eats faster than Cruiz.
 
  • two month old twins Cruiz- Reminds me of Preslee.. he has a lot of her same mannerisms and is more laid back and easy going – most of the time. But if you push his buttons he will explode, and his cry can be deafening. He loves to be cuddled, and will stare at Cannon the entire time while laying next to him. Cruiz burps much better than Cannon during each feeding.



At Two Months…
You look more alike each day.
You are starting to be much more aware of each other.Your crying sets the other one off, and I still can’t tell your cries apart. two month old twins You both can’t seem to function unless you are swaddled. (Older brother felt left out)
two month old twins
You both make the same weird noises that sound like Sandhill Cranes.
 After waking up, I stay busy until I put Ledger down around 2:00. Sometimes I have time to sit down and eat something, other days I stay busy and I’m ready to call it quits by the time Pat walks in the door. I can’t believe how much there is to do with three boys!
two month old twins 
Dad calls you Tweedle Dee and Tweedle Dum.two month old twins
You are still sleeping in your rock n’ plays in the front room, and have yet to sleep though the night. Which is a little frustrating because both of your older siblings were sleeping by now. I think you would be too if you didn’t have a twin. You two alternate who wakes up every night, and then I’m forced to wake the other to feed them as well. I didn’t wake the 2nd one up one time, and will NEVER do that again. Having two babies on two different schedules was a nightmare. Feeding both of you takes about an hour.
two month old twins
There have been a few times I’ve shut the bathroom door, turned up the music in hopes to drown the crying out just for a few minutes. Colic maybe?
You both failed your hearing screenings twice… due to fluid. Hoping it will clear up by 8 months. 
two month old twins 
You are both wearing size 1 diapers, and packing away NB clothes is on top of my list when I can find some time.
Dad watched all three boys and I was childless for the first time. Those few hours were wonderful and I was able to recharge.
two month old twins
And though I feel like I might lose my mind at times, there are plenty of moments where I have to pinch myself to remind myself that these two little miracles are ours. I’m still amazed that my body grew two babies at one time. They are definitely worth all the hard work.
// Labels: Ashley, Cannon, Cruiz, Her Family, Ledger, Patrick, Preslee, twins
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30 comments:

  1. carolyne bSeptember 18, 2013 at 7:01 AM

    Oh yes 2 months. It goes by so fast and you wonder; when removing newborn clothing for older better fitting clothes went. I am sure in Rexburg you have some Youth who would love to come over and watch the boys so you could get even 1 1/2 nap in your room. Don't discount the young men either, one day they'll be dads. One of the Presidency from the organization could come over if the girls are Mia Maids....

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  2. CarissaSeptember 18, 2013 at 7:55 AM

    Beautiful boys! My pediatrician told me when my oldest was colicky (only one child-ha!) and I was frazzled, that colic peaks at 6 weeks and after that, it's all downhill till they go to college. Hang in there Mama!

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  3. Auntie EMSeptember 18, 2013 at 8:47 AM

    You boys are darling....all three!! I love the swaddle pictures of the 3 of them. The cloth carrier is cool...I bet that helps to be able to be a little more hands free. I also love the comparisons to Preslee and Ledger. She must be so happy for you and Pat and her brothers. You have a lovely family....HAPPY HAPPY JOY JOY!!!

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  4. ~^~Amber~^~September 18, 2013 at 8:49 AM

    You are one amazing momma! And Pat, go Pat! All of your children are beautiful and so blessed to have parents like the two of you. I can just picture Pres up there lying on her belly, looking down, giggling and being amused at everything the boys are putting you through. God Bless you all. Oh! And keep on truckin, you're doing great.

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  5. PaigeSeptember 18, 2013 at 10:42 AM

    I can't believe it has been 2 months already. They are so cute!!

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  6. VictoriaSeptember 18, 2013 at 11:07 AM

    They are so adorable! I love the pic with Ledger wrapped in the blanket in the middle, that is too cute:) I can't tell them apart except for one seems to have a little wider forehead, other than that I'd be lost as to who is who! You are a super mom!!!

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  7. Maine Baby TreatsSeptember 18, 2013 at 11:11 AM

    Sending you the biggest hug! I wish I loved closer (I am in Maine) and could help. The boys are all so handsome and you are absolutely correct, they are miracles and they are yours. HOWEVER, please try not to forget about yourself. A happy, healthy mommy is so super important. Do you have a stroller that you can put them both in?

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  8. Hi my name is actuallySeptember 18, 2013 at 11:46 AM

    Holy smokes those sullenger looks run deep in the family. All the Sullenger grand babies have a similar look... you can tell they all come from the same tree of life.

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  9. LauraSeptember 18, 2013 at 12:07 PM

    Oh how you brought back memories. My twins slept in our family room for two months and I am not sure I ever slept! They also used to cry from 7 pm till 12 every single night! That being said it gets so much easier and better. My son was two and has no memory of those long hard neglected days, he only talks about how great his sisters are like it was only good. So keep that in mind when you feel like you can't do it all! You are doing great!

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  10. CourtneySeptember 18, 2013 at 12:37 PM

    The picture with Ledger swaddled with his brothers is sooooooo cute! It made me laugh out loud. :)

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  11. ReenieSeptember 18, 2013 at 12:58 PM

    So Adorable Ashley.

    Tweedle Dee and Tweedle Dum ~ ~ too funny and cute!!

    Love the pic of them all swaddled, Ledger too.

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  12. Linsey JacksonSeptember 18, 2013 at 1:27 PM

    Wow, you are my hero!!! Hang in there. My friend had twin boys a year ago. She is INSANELY loving her days now that she got through that first year. It is incredible to see her boys interact. What a special thing. You are doing amazing!!!!!

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  13. The KingsSeptember 19, 2013 at 6:29 AM

    I can not even imagine how busy and tired you must be! They are so gorgeous and it's so nice to hear how you are doing. I wish so much that I lived close by so I could come and help and give you a break when you need it. I'm so glad your mum is close by and able to help. She looks wonderful. I'm so happy for all of you. I love watching them grow and hearing how they're doing.

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  14. JeNnASeptember 19, 2013 at 9:22 AM

    Adorable adorable adorable little boys ash! I am sooo happy for you! And miss ya like crazy!! Love ya!

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  15. SarahSeptember 19, 2013 at 9:47 AM

    My twins are 8 months... They were the same way about being swaddled! It was crazy how much they loved that. I thought it was because they were premature. Seriously, I know how crazy 2 month old twins are! I can't believe how much better it has gotten in just a few months. Hang in there!

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  16. SarahSeptember 19, 2013 at 9:50 AM

    Hang in there! My twins are 8 months. I remember how difficult two month old twins are... It's so much harder than I ever imagined! I can't believe how much more manageable it has gotten in just the last few months. I felt really bad for my older kids but I have much more time for them and everyone is doing better.

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  17. TiffanySeptember 19, 2013 at 10:39 AM

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  18. TiffanySeptember 19, 2013 at 10:43 AM

    Hi Ashley! I've never met you, but have been so inspired by your story and your faith. I am also so excited for you for your two new additions! When my oldest son was 15 months old, my twins were born. I completely understand how exhausted you must feel much of the time. Now my twins are 15 months old, and I just wanted to let you know that it does get easier! I promise you will one day get to sleep and actually sit down to eat a meal or two :) Good luck! You can do it!

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  19. UnknownSeptember 19, 2013 at 11:40 AM

    They are cute little boys! You look like one cute Momma- I love following and reading your blog. I must admit this post made me tear up a little. Our bodies are AMAZING. God is sure good.

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  20. Kasey WilliamsSeptember 19, 2013 at 3:27 PM

    They are adorable! I love the picture of Ledger swaddled. :-) Your little family is AWESOME!

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  21. The Harvey'sSeptember 20, 2013 at 8:21 AM

    Love the pictures! I especially love the first one with your mom holding the baby with Ledger next to him. My favorite part is the dog on the arm of the couch with his head in his paws! He looks defeated! That picture made me laugh! Thanks for the updates!

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  22. beccaSeptember 20, 2013 at 8:05 PM

    enjoy reading about your family. we have 6, 4, and 2 yr old boys and 4 week old boy/girl twins. i have moments of thinking i might go crazy too. so nice to know i'm not alone in this twin world! =) wondering about the wrap where you are wearing both babies. what is that and is it pretty easy to figure out? i'm needing to figure out a way to carry both babies. thanks!

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  23. PennySeptember 23, 2013 at 8:23 PM

    Hi Ashley, I have been following your blog for some time now and low and behold - we just found out my daughter is pregnant with twin boys! You must have sent some twin fairy dust our way :) No twins in the family so quite a surprise! I read that your boys failed their hearing screen 'due to fluid'. I run hearing screen programs for a large company and strongly encourage you not to wait until 8 months to get follow up. It may truly just be fluid, but there is no way to tell without follow up testing and on the chance that there is hearing loss- time is critical. I am happy to help in any way - I just can't stress enough that you not wait until 8 months. I will continue to follow you and hopefully learn the do's and don'ts of twins so that I can share tips with my daughter :) God Bless you and your family.

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  24. AllisonSeptember 24, 2013 at 11:44 AM

    Having twins is so much harder than most people realize. I had a just turned two year old as well when my twins were born - those first few months feel like an eternity. I also wondered when mine would sleep through the night since my first did at about 8 weeks. With my twins it was much later. I did end up putting one in a bedroom and one in the living room so they didn't wake each other up. I am with you on wanting to feed them at the same time but then I worried they would never learn to sleep if I kept waking them up. It is really a Catch 22. At this age probably best to do it together but sometime in the next few months you might want to let them sleep to give them a chance to do that long stretch.

    Anyway, no helpful advice other than just get through it. Feels like so long in the moment but you will emerge and actually be able to enjoy all three of them at some point! I think it was when mine were about 6 to 8 months old that I really got a handle on everything. Not that there aren't new problems to deal with then, but I think anything is better with a full night of sleep.

    So, keep on keepin' on :)

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  25. UnknownSeptember 24, 2013 at 6:47 PM

    I can't tell you how happy I am for your family! Those three boys are ADORABLE!!

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  26. AmandaAnneSeptember 27, 2013 at 3:56 PM

    You look beautiful and your babies look very happy and healthy! Doing great!

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  27. JenniSeptember 30, 2013 at 11:59 PM

    Super cute! And yes, SUPER hard! Twins are not easy....but oh so worth it! I remember {well, a little anyhow} my twins that small. WE were just on survival mode. I had a 15 month old boy when my twin girls were born plus a 4 year old and a 6 year old. It's ALOT of work to have twins. You are doing awesome and will be SOOOO glad you are documenting in a few years when you can't remember anything, other than being exhausted. Keep up the good work and make sure you take a few moments for yourself whenever you can. You are AWESOME!!!!

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  28. Walton FamilyOctober 1, 2013 at 10:29 PM

    My son was colicky when he was first born, ALWAYS had to be held. I was told to take him to the chiropractor.... I know it sounds nuts, but it worked! I will take all my babies to the chiropractor! After seeing the results a refer my friends all the time, I've been the best advertisement! My doctor told me it wouldn't help, but it's so obvious that it. Being so squished, I bet it could work wonders on your boys!

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  29. UnknownApril 18, 2015 at 5:03 PM

    What type of wrap are you using to hold both of your boys? I am 27 weeks pregnant with twins and it looks like something I need to go and buy! Thanks!

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  30. UnknownApril 18, 2015 at 5:03 PM

    What kind of wrap are you using to hold the boys?

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