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My friend Candee threw me a baby shower at my parents house. Between her and my mother they went all out and it turned out really cute. I regretfully didn't take many pictures... due to insufficient space on my camera. I always had my camera near by with Preslee, but over the past ten months I have gotten out of the habit. I guess I have a month to revert back. :)

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Cupcakes, cake pops, chocolate covered pretzels, fruit shish kabobs with dip, cake, vegetable tray with the best cheese I've ever eaten :) And my favorite lime drink.

We were able to spend half of the time outside in the warm weather which was so nice! Then it started raining, so we moved it inside. This picture was taken at the end after being moved inside, so it's a side shot ha.



We even revealed his name... still working on a middle name :)

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Okay, and I hesitated posting these. Mainly because my face looks so swollen!! Yes, I'm getting to that stage. But I felt it will be fun to look back at. My cousin Tiana and I are due the exact same day. Though I stick out a little further, we carry very similar-straight out!

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I couldn't believe how generous everyone was. Thank you so much. Our little guy will be wearing some cute green, brown, and orange clothing and have plenty of diapers to last a long time.

I was so surprised and excited to receive this gift-



A video monitor! This is an item Pat and I really really wanted. I think it may be difficult for us to not be paranoid helicopter parents. I already know there will be a few things I'll struggle with this time around that I never thought about with Preslee. Other than making sure a newborn is sleeping safe and sound, I would have loved to have been able to watch Pres the last few months of her life. Every time we walked in she would freeze and slowly look over at us with a mischievous grin. I still would like to know how she climbed out of her crib that very last day and totally destroyed her room by taking every single item out of her dresser, closet, and under her crib. :) As hard as it was to come home from PCMC to her room like that, Pat and I couldn't help but smile through the tears as we cleaned it up. Man, I miss her, this pregnancy and the thought of a new baby brings a lot of mixed emotions.

I really just wanted to thank everyone who came or sent a gift to the shower. I feel like Pat and I are constantly on the receiving end. As I sat at the shower I realized these are all the people who 3 years ago came and supported us at a bridal shower and a wedding reception. Then two and a half years later came to a viewing and funeral and have showed their constant support over the past ten months. One day I can't wait to take what I have learned from so many of them and be on the other end- the giver.
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32 comments:

  1. Chase & MeganMay 18, 2011 at 10:07 AM

    Way cute shower!! Ashley you look so cute Pregnant. Can't wait to see your little man.

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  2. The SullengersMay 18, 2011 at 10:32 AM

    I'm so glad you had a shower and got lots of great stuff! People are really generous! I was going to ship your present weeks ago but then decided I'll just give it to Pat when he gets here tomorrow - that way I can save on shipping :) Anyway, we can't wait to meet Ledger and I hope it's soon!

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  3. AlishaMay 18, 2011 at 10:35 AM

    Wow, that table looked awesome! I wish I could have made it. We'll just have to make a trip up when he makes his grand entrance. Don't forget that we are doing a photo session of the little one and with you guys too!

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  4. Paige Whitney PhillipsMay 18, 2011 at 10:39 AM

    Ash, you look absolutely AMAZING!! Ledger is such a sweet name. I wish you a quick delivery and fast recovery!!

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  5. AnonymousMay 18, 2011 at 10:41 AM

    Ash, I don't think you realize how much of a giver you already are. You share your testimony with everyone constantly and that is so great!
    I had so much fun at your baby shower! I seriously can't wait to meet him. Be prepared.. I'm sure Pres is teaching him all her sweet little tricks and exactly how she crawled out of that crib!
    Love ya! Remember I'm home all day too! Lets get together.. for reals!
    Ps. Candee and your mom did an amazing job on the food!

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  6. Britt and ChadMay 18, 2011 at 11:00 AM

    I'm so excited for you guys!! And I love the name you picked!! We'll have to come see him next time we're in Rexburg.

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  7. Powell's PlaceMay 18, 2011 at 11:40 AM

    You look so stinkin' cute!! Tell them nice job on the shower; it all looks adorable and yummy!

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  8. LindseyMay 18, 2011 at 11:59 AM

    You look great! wishing you a happy and healthy rest of your pregnancy!

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  9. Kenton AndersonMay 18, 2011 at 12:08 PM

    We are so excited for you to feel like a mother again! You are such great parents and we are so excited to see some cute pictures of your little guy- he is going to be adorable! I'm sure he is going to be the sweetest little spirit that will be exactly what you need right now. Your blog is adorable and though I don't always comment, I read all the posts and I am so happy you post because you can feel how strong your testimony is- it makes me realize how much you are helping so many people!

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  10. MandyMay 18, 2011 at 12:10 PM

    You don't know me,but I follow your blog. I want to tell you how incredibly impressed I am by your strength, perspective, and maturity through this unbelievably difficult trial. You are truly going through the refiners fire, and you will come through as an even more amazing person. Congrats on your baby boy!

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  11. TifaniMay 18, 2011 at 12:46 PM

    Wow that shower was amazing!!! Im so glad its coming to an end for you and soon you will get to snuggle that new baby!! AND adorable name by the way!! Never heard of that name before for a first name! so sweet, when I heard it I thought how cute that would be to have the initial "P" be in the middle, it could stand for Preslee and Pat!! Just came to my mind instantly when I heard his name!!!! don't know why!!!Good luck sweet friend, hope this delivery is fast and so is your recovery!!!
    Luv ya much
    Tif

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  12. ShandraMay 18, 2011 at 1:27 PM

    Looks like you had a Beautiful Shower! You look Amazing for almost being ready to have the little guy! I love the name you chose. I'm so happy for you two to be adding a new addition to the family. :o)

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  13. Brittany KaaiakamanuMay 18, 2011 at 2:42 PM

    I love the name you picked! And thats so exciting that you and Tiana are due the same day. That'll be so much fun for the kids growing up to have a cousin so close in age.

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  14. CarlaMay 18, 2011 at 5:43 PM

    Beautiful shower pics Ashley! You look great too. I have been following your blog ever since the accident and you are an inspiration to me, more and more with each post you make...not to sound creepish. I think Joe or Joseph for a middle name.

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  15. MMay 18, 2011 at 7:32 PM

    What a beautiful shower, and I LOVE your babies name!!!

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  16. RachMay 18, 2011 at 7:54 PM

    Sidd, like Heidi D said- you may think you're always on the receiving end but you touch so many people all the time with your strength and your testimony. I too feel like we're all constantly drawing from your strength. I'm glad you had a great baby shower- can hardly wait to see him! love you!

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  17. RMRRMay 18, 2011 at 8:12 PM

    Ledger Preston Sullenger sounds good to me if you are looking for a sentimental connection! Ledger is an awesome name regardless of what middle name you choose! Best wishes and congratulations!

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  18. JaredMay 18, 2011 at 9:19 PM

    Ashley,
    I was so sorry I had to miss your shower. I had all the Sommer cousins over and time got away from me. I was going to donate to the video monitor and bring the money in the card tomorrow to your moms so now what? I have something in mind so I'll call your mom to see if you already have one! You have given more than you'll ever know I'm sure through your example of faith and your testimony! You look adorable and i LOVE his name! love you ash!
    Katie Sommer

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  19. UnknownMay 18, 2011 at 9:56 PM

    You are such a beautiful person inside and out. You and your husband have honored your sweet little Preslee by inspiring so many with your constant unwavering faith in our Lord in the midst of such an unspeakable loss. I pray for you, Pat and your new little baby boy who will be here very soon. Much love to all of you.
    Mary

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  20. EmmaMay 18, 2011 at 10:39 PM

    I have been following your blog for a long time now, but have rarely commented but I had to today-you said you would like to be on the giving end and my friend, you already are!! Each and everyday you share your story, you share your journey and each post touches someones life. You have made me appreciate my girls more, hug them more, not take life for granted...you are definitely giving each and every day!

    I am so glad you had such a beautiful shower, and 'Ledger'-LOVE IT! I know you are already an amazing and incredible Mom but I am so excited for you to get to feel a baby in your arms again and get to do all those "mommy things" once more!

    Congrats to you all, I can't wait to keep reading about your new little man when he arrives. Hugs, Emma

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  21. SarahMay 18, 2011 at 11:35 PM

    You guys are an inspiration to me.

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  22. Kip & MelissaMay 19, 2011 at 9:21 AM

    Your shower looked so fun and super cute! You look so adorable and you are getting so close! Love the name!

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  23. KendraMay 19, 2011 at 10:41 AM

    oh wow - Candee is amazing! How does that girl do it? I can't say that your shower will be that fancy at my house....sigh....I am just not that creative or talented! That's why I got Rachel and Emily to help me :) It should be fun though! Can't wait!!

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  24. Alycia Grayce (Crowley Party)May 19, 2011 at 5:29 PM

    Such an adorable shower! :)

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  25. GenevieveMay 19, 2011 at 7:29 PM

    you look great! and i love the name ledger. good luck in the next few weeks- yay for june almost being here!! :)

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  26. TiffanyMay 20, 2011 at 3:36 AM

    I LOVE his name!!! So flip-stinkin' cute!!!! And everyone is right, you look amazing. I'm so glad you have such a wonderful family that would throw you such a darling, and well-deserved party :)

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  27. TabbiMay 20, 2011 at 9:34 AM

    Wow they did go over and beyond hu? The food is so cute all the colors and decorations :) You look so cute pregnant! One more month. You will be ready!!! It's okay to worry. You're a parent. It's what we do. Congrats! I can't wait for the moment you are able to hear a baby's coo within your homes walls and the laughter and feel the business of being a mother once again.

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  28. LinsyMay 20, 2011 at 11:26 PM

    Those monitors will be amazing! I'm so glad you got them! I love the pregnancy shots, so cute! Sorry I was so late to the shower, but glad I was able to come anyways. Can't wait to meet little Ledger! :)

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  29. Grandma HoneyMay 21, 2011 at 10:04 PM

    What a beautiful shower. And I LOVE his name!!

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  30. JonesMay 22, 2011 at 11:19 AM

    Your shower looks beautiful. I love the name. I can't wait to see what your new bundle of joy will look like. I wish you both much happiness.

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  31. Jackie KollMay 25, 2011 at 5:23 AM

    Thought of you this morning when I caught part of "For Good" being sung (from Wicked) That song is one of my favorites and I first heard it here on you blog. I can't hear it without thinking of you and your family. Prayed for you throughout the song!

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  32. AnonymousMay 29, 2011 at 8:14 PM

    Saw this and thought of you. You may have read it before, but thought I should share just in case. I thought it was a great article.
    http://www.reviewjournal.com/lvrj_home/2006/Feb-26-Sun-2006/living/5987837.html

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