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From Here to Eternity...


Dear Patrick,

We've officially been married for three years! Even though our life together has had some unexpected turns I'm so grateful I've been able to experience it with you. You've been my rock during these last few years and I've seen you grow in so many ways. I can't wait to see what we can accomplish together years from now. Thank you for making me laugh every single day.

Love,

Ashley Jo
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33 comments:

  1. The SullengersAugust 3, 2010 at 9:44 AM

    Happy anniversary! It's nice to watch you two because you can tell you are in love! Congrats on 3 years - it only gets better :)

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  2. Amanda Joy PetersenAugust 3, 2010 at 9:49 AM

    Happy Anniversary! Ours will be Four at the end of September. Our goal is to have it sunny that day, as it has rained or snowed every year since our wedding day:)

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  3. UnknownAugust 3, 2010 at 9:53 AM

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  4. LaurenAugust 3, 2010 at 10:05 AM

    we have the same anniversary! It's a good one!! I am always thinking of you guys, hope you had a wonderful anniversary.

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  5. UnknownAugust 3, 2010 at 10:06 AM

    You two are an incredible story of love, hope, and faithfulness in our God! Your story has brought me to my knees and helped me witness the incredible power that He has. I can not stop thinking about your family and will continue praying for all of you. I thank you for sharing your stories with me and am truly grateful that I had to the chance to know both yours and Preslee's. What wonderful people you are! Happy Anniversary and here's to many more loving years for you two together!

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  6. TifaniAugust 3, 2010 at 10:07 AM

    Happy Anniversary to you both! What a sweet sweet family you have, all my love to you both and you are still in my prayers and thoughts and I keep your name on the prayer roll of our new Temple here in the Gila Valley, I found out that Patrick or you, can't quite remember knows my cousin Ryan and his new Bride Jordan Bennion,
    Here's to many more years of Happiness,
    With ALL my love
    Tifani Cluff
    Safford, AZ

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  7. AnonymousAugust 3, 2010 at 10:07 AM

    Happy Anniversary to you two. I hope you have a fabulous day together. I just wanted to let you know we're always thinking of you guys here in Utah! :) My friend and I contacted our local radio station and told them about your story. They've posted it on their website with a link to your blog so people everywhere can purchase Preslee's song to help you guys out. We hope this does some help for you guys!! :)

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  8. Chelsea NicoleAugust 3, 2010 at 10:18 AM

    It seems like it was just yesterday (okay maybe a couple of months ago, but not three years) that I was waiting outside the temple doors for you two to come out. Happy anniversary , I couldn't think of a better couple to be together and madly in love haha.

    Love ya

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  9. lindseyAugust 3, 2010 at 10:28 AM

    Happy Anniversary!!

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  10. WendyAugust 3, 2010 at 11:41 AM

    Happy Anniversary!! Glad you have a great man to share your life with, to sustain you in all areas of life.

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  11. Chase & MeganAugust 3, 2010 at 12:25 PM

    Happy anniversary. You two are such a amazing couple and chase and I look up to you guys. I hope you had a good day!!

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  12. HayleyAugust 3, 2010 at 12:32 PM

    Happy Anniversary!! I think you two are sooo amazing...and the cutest couple ever!! Eternity doesn't sound too bad when you have each other! :) One day at a time...

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  13. Miss CrysAugust 3, 2010 at 12:36 PM

    Happy Anniversary Patrick And Ashley "Jo". How sweet your little girl shares your middle name. You're both angels!

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  14. djkollAugust 3, 2010 at 1:29 PM

    Happy Anniversary :-) Thank you for sharing the pictures too - what a beautiful day it was. I continue to pray for you both and am grateful that God gave you to each other; what is better than having your soul mate! We will be celebrating year number 9 tomorrow and it just keeps getting better!!

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  15. JeNnAAugust 3, 2010 at 1:46 PM

    Hey Ash!
    Congrats....3 years... CRAZY!!! I sure love ya. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you!
    I loved your slideshow!
    Love,
    Jenna

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  16. gellyAugust 3, 2010 at 1:51 PM

    Happy Anniversary Ashley and Patrick!! You two are a fantastic couple. Enjoy your day!

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  17. Kyle and MichelleAugust 3, 2010 at 2:53 PM

    Happy Anniversary! It's crazy how fast time goes by isn't it? I just want you to know that you and Pat are always in our prayers. And thank you for being such a great example. You have change many people's lives. I have seen it first hand. You are an amazing couple that can and will conquer all.

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  18. LinsyAugust 3, 2010 at 3:30 PM

    Yay!!! Happy number three!!! Hope you two have a blast today :) And even more of a blast in Cancun! ;)

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  19. The Fun Carter FamilyAugust 3, 2010 at 6:51 PM

    Best of luck to you & your family. What a blessing the Temple Covenants are. Thank you again for being an example to me.

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  20. My; LifeAugust 4, 2010 at 9:30 AM

    Hi, my name is Colby Majors. I just read all about your little girl and I want you to know that Heavenly Father and His son loves all of you so very much. My sister-in-law and her husband has lost two sons due to a gene that her mother carries. I am not exactly sure what it is called, but it is difficult for the women in the family to have children. Their two sons are the only ones to have it here in Utah and the only males that survived birth in the U.S. Their first would have been 3 this year in April, but he only lived for almost 2 months. Their second lived 13 months and passed away earlier this year. Of course it was hard for them, but they know that they are loved and that they will see their sons again, and I know that you will see your daughter again.

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  21. MeredithAugust 4, 2010 at 9:37 AM

    Happy Anniversary! You dont know me...I found your blog through another one that I follow. I am amazed by your strength and your witness. I am a Christian and cant not imagine going through life not one or having a tragedy like this happen to me without that faith. Thank you for sharing your daughters life and what it means even though it was short by our time frames. Preslee is special and always will be and one day I will get to meet this little girl who saved so many. Thank you again for being brave enough to share.

    Meredith

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  22. AmishkaAugust 4, 2010 at 10:38 AM

    You do not know me but your blog has been sent to me by two people who I love and adore and they told me to look at your blog because my 17 month old son passed away on the 12 of July. His funeral service was also on the 20th. I am amazed at your strength. I've been told that so many times I wish people would stop thinking of me as strong I'm stuggling too but they don't see that as much. I have 4 other children who lift me up daily and bring me great comfort along with the gospel. I don't know what I'd do without them so needless to say as I read your blog and I'm feeling every same emotion as you I'm also amazed at your strength for losing your first precious angel. My condolences to you and my prayers also. Your blog has brought me so much comfort in reading and all the quotes you've posted have helped me tremendously. I have a poem posted on my blog I think you may find comfort in, it is call "What make a mother" your can put father in that too it applies just the same. da.savillefamily.org Thank you for your strength and sharing your testimony. Hang in there, I believe that's all we can do at this time beside pray a lot.
    Amy Saville
    Pocatello, ID

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  23. AnonymousAugust 4, 2010 at 11:23 AM

    Sullengers-

    You don't know me, but your example has meant more to me then you'll ever know. I have a child with health problems and special needs...and your strength lifts me up.
    This life is hard...no doubt about it!!! Something that has comforted me with my son is:

    "The Lord compensates the faithful for EVERY LOSS. That which is taken away from those who love the Lord will be added unto them in His own way. While it may not come at the time we desire, the faithful will know that every tear today will eventually be returned a hundredfold with tears of rejoicing and gratitude."
    (from Come what may, and love it; Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin)

    But can you EVEN believe that!!! YOU WILL be compensated a HUNDREDFOLD!!! I have NO DOUBT that the 2 of you WILL be SO very blessed in this life and in the life to come!

    XOXO,
    S.Keller

    P.S. you should check this video out...it has also helped me:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8nczw6xHJ0I

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  24. AnonymousAugust 4, 2010 at 5:35 PM

    Happy Anniversary Patrick and Ashley...
    I have been praying for your family since I read Preslee's story on the MLB wives'website.
    I am also part of a prayer chain for my MOPS group here in Colorado that has been praying Gore, a little boy whose story was very similar to that of Preslee's. If you have the strength, you can access his story at http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/goreotteson/mystory
    As you will read, their outcome was much different from yours. I'm not sure why I felt compelled to share this with you other than thinking that this connection will somehow form a bond across the miles. Perhaps you will pray for little Gore and his family can pray for you and Patrick.
    Your faith is an inspiration. You have inspired me to love on my kids a little more...
    I will continue to pray for you. God is blessing you and will continue to do so on your journey.

    Lisa Bates
    Castle Rock, Colorado

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  25. SaraAugust 4, 2010 at 5:38 PM

    Still thinking of you two and your sweet Preslee. Love you.

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  26. AnonymousAugust 4, 2010 at 9:03 PM

    You are amazing people! You have given me the desire to become such a better person! I hope your day together was special!

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  27. AlliAugust 5, 2010 at 9:12 PM

    I just stumbled onto your blog. My tears are streaming down my face and onto my keyboard. I wish I could to more for you than type and pray. As I was reading your story, my husband said to me "Hey, that's my friends blog." It turns out he went to high school with your husband.

    We both express our deepest sorrow for the both of you. Our thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you. Truly, thank God for the gospel of Jesus Christ and the reality of eternal life.

    We have downloaded 'Preslee' and practically have it memorized.

    You're in our prayers...

    Alli

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  28. AnonymousAugust 5, 2010 at 10:48 PM

    Patrick and Ashley I also stumbled upon your blog. My heart is hurting for you right now. Your testimonies are unwavering and I am so amzed by your attitudes through this trial. I have something I think could help bring you comfort- Email me and I will get it in the mail asap. Shaidzhair@yahoo.com and my blog is nick and krish.blogspot.com

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  29. Natasha IrelandAugust 5, 2010 at 11:02 PM

    As I sit here in my Provo Home (home away from home...my hometown is Rigby) I cry for you. I pray to have the strength that you two have shown. Your a beautiful, wonderful couple and have an amazing future together. THank you for sharing your story, thank you for allowing us into your lives to be built up and have our testimonies strengthened. I sit in AwE at couples like you. You helped a friend of mine this week in a way you may never know, just understand that you are touching lives EVERYDAY and your strength and UNITY as a couple is so TOUCHING.

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  30. EmilyAugust 6, 2010 at 10:19 AM

    You are just so gorgeous, inside and out. Happy anniversary! I think about you guys all the time, and I'm always praying for you.

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  31. Our FamilyAugust 6, 2010 at 10:36 AM

    Happy Anniversary you two! It was nice to see you yesterday Ashley in Old Navy! Your strength is amazing! I think about you every day and pray for you constantly! I loved the slide show by the way. I will always remember going to your reception and how beautiful you looked and I LOVED your cake! We love you!
    Katie

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  32. Kara and KevinAugust 6, 2010 at 11:38 AM

    Ashley and Patrick,
    I have read through your blog many times and just felt I should write a comment to the both of you. I have one daughter who is 2 and so your story has really touched me. What a wonderful example both of you are. I have thought about you probably everday since I read your story about 2 weeks ago. I find myself praying for you and I don't know you but I hope the best for you two. I am a better mom because of you guys. My parents lost their first child when she was4 months old, and it is amazing the strength our sister is as she waits in heaven for us. I feel so much love from her! I can only imagine the strength and love you feel from your beautiful Preslee! I just want to thank you for blessing my life!! I saw your wedding pictures in the post, and realized you are friends with Hailey, who my brother dated, and then I asked my brother, Brian Hymas, if he knew you, and he said you went out a few times after his mission. Small world! :) I just told him how amazed I am at you and Patrick and he said it doesn't surprise him, he thought you were such a happy positive person. I will keep both of you in my prayers because I know the Lord is there for us always!!
    Much love,
    Kara

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  33. HeatherAugust 10, 2010 at 12:34 PM

    I'm still in awe of how strong you both are. When I am having a hard day and having trouble finding patience I think of you. I look forward to checking back on your blog and seeing the wonderful things that will be coming your way in the future.

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