tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post5504488373634887253..comments2023-12-11T03:16:39.973-07:00Comments on The Sullengers: Grief… It HurtsAshleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17807238490395570269noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-6542518063787016542014-04-01T15:35:51.933-06:002014-04-01T15:35:51.933-06:00I made my grandson a quilt using 5x5" squares...I made my grandson a quilt using 5x5" squares. Very easy and not piecing them together as a regular quilt and you snip around the edges. If you would like me to send pictures on how to do it you can email me @ elrododrive@hotmail.com You could also use smaller squares if you need to.<br />Praying for you, I can't imagine the pain you and your husband are going thru.Conniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18274316939675602860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-83237533421874661212014-03-28T10:14:40.357-06:002014-03-28T10:14:40.357-06:00Love the blanket idea!! That will be such a good w...Love the blanket idea!! That will be such a good way to remember and hold her! Love you ash!!lindseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05212670832379423530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-20249817102967198602014-03-27T11:07:25.390-06:002014-03-27T11:07:25.390-06:00We are coming up on two years since our little Cha...We are coming up on two years since our little Charlie died. I find grief re-surging as well. I am going to make a quilt out of Charlie's clothes this year too...but his clothes are still in his dresser and I dread moving them. It's so hard! Thank you always for your honesty about grief and your faith. You validate my own experience and inspire me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-22214517421500123222014-03-25T18:01:37.809-06:002014-03-25T18:01:37.809-06:00Aww praying for you! My mom quilts and has made s...Aww praying for you! My mom quilts and has made some amazing quilts before... sorority/baby ect. Please message me if you need someone (talented) to make her memory quilt!<br /><br />JenniferJenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06937735848457503926noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-30252424674899315052014-03-24T09:31:05.009-06:002014-03-24T09:31:05.009-06:00Though we have never met and may never meet, I hop...Though we have never met and may never meet, I hope and pray that you will remain strong. I admire your blog so much. I often come here to "check up" on you, like an old friend. You and your husband have made 4 incredible little humans. Keep breathing and keep on truckin...prayers to you and yours. ~^~Amber~^~https://www.blogger.com/profile/01216137778722493481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-32871692009402708632014-03-22T12:28:56.808-06:002014-03-22T12:28:56.808-06:00Sometimes life is not fair! We are approaching our...Sometimes life is not fair! We are approaching our angel Son's 4th birthday and all of the children his age are turning 4 around us. Sometimes it just flat out stinks. Hugs to you!Cade and Kelsiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12483195969957046451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-70794099053160878262014-03-21T21:59:02.526-06:002014-03-21T21:59:02.526-06:00I'm part of a support group for people who hav...I'm part of a support group for people who have lost babies, and just this past week someone observed that while people think you are grieving your baby (which is certainly true), you are also grieving the loss of a two year old, three year old, four year old, ten year old, teenager, high school graduate, college student, etc. It's a process that changes as much as your child would have Chelley Nhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15444488105896598151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-79975096467429578492014-03-21T20:17:26.432-06:002014-03-21T20:17:26.432-06:00I appreciate your honesty about grief. I helped m...I appreciate your honesty about grief. I helped make a quilt for my friend's little boy (her husband died and we made a quilt out of his shirts). <br /><br />http://ellenpatton.blogspot.com/2011/10/special-quilt-for-special-boy.htmlellenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10107387078104994223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-66112935807719718342014-03-21T16:35:02.218-06:002014-03-21T16:35:02.218-06:00Drowning (not drawing- dang auto correct!) Drowning (not drawing- dang auto correct!) Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14536596807262886317noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-60795034637019577712014-03-21T16:25:16.966-06:002014-03-21T16:25:16.966-06:00She is such a beautiful little girl. She looks so ...She is such a beautiful little girl. She looks so wise beyond her years in all her pictures! I love the one of her and Pog, she looks just like her little brother Ledger. I just recently found out that my Dad has Cancer and only 18 months to live. It is crushing me and so painful. I don't even want to begin to think about what my Mother and my family will be feeling when he's no longer Linsey Jacksonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10183792760802513595noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-52919397568209400722014-03-20T23:06:50.449-06:002014-03-20T23:06:50.449-06:00Awww the grief game can be so cruel and hard somet...Awww the grief game can be so cruel and hard sometimes. Going through their things is so hard! My sister in law made kaels clothes into a blanket this year for Christmas. I love it, it is amazing and brings back so many memories!! You can see pictures of it on my blog. Www.brigetterushworth.blogspot.com I posted it end of dec or first of Jan. Praying for you always!!brigettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03762214896655486508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-82243901815278337942014-03-20T19:59:02.826-06:002014-03-20T19:59:02.826-06:00Ashley- we lost my nephew in a drawing accident la...Ashley- we lost my nephew in a drawing accident last year and I had the privilege of making a quilt out of his clothing. I have been wanting to post them on my blog for a while and you inspired me to finish the post. It was such rewarding and amazing experience making that quilt. The one I did is pretty unique and I'm not sure if it is anything like you are thinking you'd like to do, Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14536596807262886317noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-69366355923456844122014-03-20T19:51:00.015-06:002014-03-20T19:51:00.015-06:00I cried reading this....... Her sweet pictures you...I cried reading this....... Her sweet pictures you post, Ashely she is beautiful, a very special little girl... I am so sorry that this is your life... HUGS to you todayKennedy Klanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09539024384071181206noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-32271605962670445262014-03-20T18:29:49.145-06:002014-03-20T18:29:49.145-06:00I had a little girl who passed away at 6 days old....I had a little girl who passed away at 6 days old. It took me a while to even be able to go in her room and a big step was getting her clothes in a tote. This July chloe would have been 5 in july. I have been able to share all the stuff meant for her with multiple families and share God's love too. I still have one tote left to go through but it makes me feel like breathing is the most Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03907439331979334948noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-32415062544694842862014-03-20T17:29:24.335-06:002014-03-20T17:29:24.335-06:00The holidays, the big and small milestones, they a...The holidays, the big and small milestones, they are so hard. My son passed away 3 years ago at 3 1/2 months. Not only do we grieve for what was , but also the future that won't be happening here. I remember the 1st childrens play at church after Sully died, I cried the whole way home. It's hard seeing others age while ours remain the same ageAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05327574737954838250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-54325572685625160962014-03-20T15:51:51.361-06:002014-03-20T15:51:51.361-06:00It's okay that grief wins some days. Prayers &...It's okay that grief wins some days. Prayers <3Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04992199063959758164noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-8372611774633050282014-03-20T15:01:55.532-06:002014-03-20T15:01:55.532-06:00Some days it does win doesn't it?
I love your...Some days it does win doesn't it? <br />I love your pictures of your beautiful girl and I'm sorry today was tougher than some easier days. I haven't made a blanket of my son's clothes yet but I plan to when I can face it. I think it's a lovely idea.<br />Sending you love.xxFionahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13399925686679550250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-30687646630452184242014-03-20T12:40:58.983-06:002014-03-20T12:40:58.983-06:00Oh sweet mama. I just posted something on my blog...Oh sweet mama. I just posted something on my blog that you NEED to read. From one grieving mama to another...hugs!!!<br /><br />TrishaTrisha Larsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02426915708825675793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-71295332054714997822014-03-20T12:39:51.331-06:002014-03-20T12:39:51.331-06:00I'm so sorry. I wish there was something more ...I'm so sorry. I wish there was something more to say, but there's not. I can't imagine how hard it must be, especially only having boys after her. If it's even a slight consolation, you've helped me really live and enjoy each day, and truly enjoy my little girl because I never know when she'll be back to our Heavenly Father. Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04410376163619565158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-82816191428786332192014-03-20T12:13:08.879-06:002014-03-20T12:13:08.879-06:00It prob sucks to hear "you'll raise her s...It prob sucks to hear "you'll raise her someday" because you will but you want to raise her right now! I can't even imagine that pain. I have a 5 yr old and can't imagine losing her but know that Preslee is perfect and she will always be perfect because she left this earth as a baby and man she has got it made! And you were probably one of heavenly fathers chosen also to be Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01350594658526418483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-87538561910674837712014-03-20T11:52:26.600-06:002014-03-20T11:52:26.600-06:00I understand that kindergarten milestone. When my...I understand that kindergarten milestone. When my Nina would have been 5 and registering I was crushed. I should have been planning first day of school clothes and was planning a graveside memorial. Devastating! You will find a way. I touched none of Nina's clothes until the week before I delivered my 2nd daughter. I still had her dirty clothes hamper filled with dirty clothes. I ss t Mom of an angel in heaven and on earthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14994506677264887637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-89959362607852217502014-03-20T11:00:08.632-06:002014-03-20T11:00:08.632-06:00I am so sorry you had a hard day. I had hope that ...I am so sorry you had a hard day. I had hope that they will get easier as time goes on. We are only 4 months out and those same things have been the hardest for me too. Spring dresses, Frozen and all things girly. Sometimes I am grateful after I have a hard day because I realized that those days I am usually thinking more about heaven, and that is always a good thing. You are strong and I Bryan and Christy Clarkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03396449850439341037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-86266660686446177952014-03-20T10:50:17.712-06:002014-03-20T10:50:17.712-06:00Bless your heart. Lots of prayers and hugs. Bless your heart. Lots of prayers and hugs. Traciehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12039019475750201197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-78777405374777391422014-03-20T10:43:56.805-06:002014-03-20T10:43:56.805-06:00This made my cry. Thinking of you & saying a p...This made my cry. Thinking of you & saying a prayer for you <3 Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10199115942365804459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1382136325822253148.post-29466807343399561332014-03-20T10:01:45.582-06:002014-03-20T10:01:45.582-06:00I'm not positive, but I think I found this Ash...I'm not positive, but I think I found this Ashlee through you.. Maybe you have already seen this post that she wrote, but if not... http://themomentswestand.blogspot.com/2014/01/please-hold-me.html<br />I am planning on making a bunch of quilts similar to these out of my grandma's shirts for my cousins, aunts, & uncle for this Christmas. I like how different material was bought to Berry Tauferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06042711738564755845noreply@blogger.com